Trauma & Anxiety Psychotherapist
in Toronto
Supporting your healing journey through EMDR, IFS, and Somatic Psychotherapy.
My Approach to Therapy
Healing unfolds most deeply when all parts of you, mind and body, are welcomed into the process.
My integrative approach combines evidence-based trauma therapies, including EMDR, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Somatic Psychotherapy, Deep Brain Reorienting (DBR), and the Havening Technique, with a compassionate, attuned therapeutic relationship.
Our work is collaborative and paced with your nervous system, allowing healing to happen at a rhythm your body can trust.
Through therapy, we can:
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Heal the parts of you that carry pain and protect you
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Reprocess and release trauma stored in the body and nervous system
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Explore unconscious patterns and shadow aspects
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Calm the amygdala and regulate emotional responses
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Heal attachment wounds and restore a sense of safety
Integrative Psychotherapy in Toronto
An approach grounded in psychology, neuroscience, and mind-body therapy
PSYCHOLOGY
SCIENCE
WISDOM
Who I Work With
I work with adults seeking to understand and heal the deeper roots of anxiety, trauma, perfectionism, people-pleasing, or self-criticism. My clients are often highly insightful and sensitive individuals who have spent years “holding it all together” and are ready to feel more present, confident, and free.
What Working Together Looks Like
Our sessions create space for you to slow down, notice, and reconnect. We’ll work collaboratively to uncover patterns held in your mind and body, bringing compassion, curiosity, and awareness to your inner experience. The process unfolds at your pace, with support that feels attuned and steady.
Therapy can help you:
- Reduce anxiety and emotional overwhelm
- Heal the impact of trauma or attachment wounds
- Strengthen boundaries and self-trust
- Find balance between caring for others and yourself
- Feel more grounded and connected in daily life
Therapeutic Modalities
EMDR
Reprocesses trauma & heals core beliefs.
Archetypal Psychology
Exploring unconscious patterns and shadow aspects.
IFS
Heals the parts of you carrying pain & protecting you.
Havening Technique
Calms the amygdala of the brain & reprocesses trauma.
Somatic Therapy
Releases trauma stored in the body & nervous system.
Deep Brain Reorienting
Heals the deep pain of shock and attachment trauma.
I draw from several evidence-based trauma and mind–body approaches. We may use one or a combination, depending on what feels most supportive for your nervous system and goals.
CLIENT STORIES
The High Achiever Who Feels Exhausted
On paper, she had everything together. A successful career, strong relationships, and a reputation for being dependable. Yet internally, she felt anxious much of the time.
She found herself overthinking decisions, replaying conversations, and feeling responsible for everyone else’s needs. No matter how much she accomplished, it never felt like enough. Rest often brought guilt rather than relief. Beneath her achievements was a constant pressure to perform, prove herself, and avoid making mistakes.
Through therapy, she began to understand that these patterns were not character flaws. Using Internal Family Systems (IFS), we explored the perfectionist and inner critic parts that worked tirelessly to keep her safe. Rather than trying to get rid of these parts, she developed curiosity and compassion for them, learning how they had formed earlier in life and how hard they had been working to protect her from disappointment, rejection, or failure.
As her relationship with these parts began to change, so did her relationship with herself. The harsh self-criticism that had once felt automatic gradually softened.
Through somatic therapy, she also began noticing how these patterns lived in her body and nervous system. The pressure to achieve, stay vigilant, and keep pushing forward was not just a mindset. It had become an automatic physiological response. By learning to recognize and work with these nervous system patterns, she developed a greater capacity for rest, self-regulation, and choice.
Over time, she found herself setting healthier boundaries, trusting herself more deeply, and experiencing greater ease in both her work and relationships. While challenges still arose, she no longer felt driven by the same relentless pressure to prove her worth. Success became something she could enjoy rather than something she constantly had to earn.
The Insightful Person Who Still Feels Stuck
He had read the books, listened to the podcasts, attended therapy, and could clearly explain where many of his patterns came from. He understood his anxiety, people-pleasing, and tendency to withdraw when relationships felt difficult.
Yet despite all of this insight, the same reactions continued to show up.
Through Internal Family Systems (IFS), we explored the protective parts carrying anxiety, self-doubt, and hypervigilance. Rather than viewing these reactions as problems to eliminate, he began to understand them as adaptations that had developed for important reasons. Self-judgment gradually gave way to greater compassion and curiosity.
Using Deep Brain Reorienting (DBR) and somatic therapy, we worked with deeper nervous system patterns that were operating outside of conscious awareness. Over time, he found himself responding differently in situations that had once automatically triggered anxiety, self-doubt, or withdrawal.
As self-protection softened, he developed greater self-trust, a stronger connection to his own inner truth, and the freedom to make choices that felt aligned with who he genuinely was.
Healing From Complex Trauma
She did not initially think of herself as someone who had experienced trauma.
There was no single event she could point to. Instead, there had been years of walking on eggshells, feeling emotionally alone, and learning to prioritize other people’s needs over her own. Growing up, she became highly attuned to the emotions and expectations of others while losing touch with her own needs, feelings, and boundaries.
As an adult, she struggled with anxiety, people-pleasing, self-doubt, difficulty trusting herself, and a persistent feeling that something was wrong with her. Relationships often felt complicated. She found herself either over-giving, withdrawing, or becoming overwhelmed by fears of disappointing others.
Through therapy, she began to understand these patterns not as personal shortcomings, but as adaptations that had once helped her navigate difficult experiences. Together, we explored how these survival strategies had developed and why they continued to show up long after they were needed.
Using EMDR therapy, we processed unresolved memories that still carried emotional charge in the present. Experiences that had once felt overwhelming, painful, or defining gradually became integrated into her life story rather than continuing to shape her reactions from the background. As these memories were processed, the beliefs she carried about herself also began to shift. Feelings of shame, self-blame, and not being “good enough” softened and made room for greater self-compassion and self-trust.
At the same time, we worked with the nervous system and the body. Many of her reactions were not conscious choices but automatic responses shaped by years of adaptation. Through somatic therapy, she learned to recognize these patterns, develop greater capacity for emotional regulation, and experience a growing sense of safety within herself.
Over time, she became less focused on managing symptoms and more connected to who she actually was beneath them. She found herself setting healthier boundaries, trusting her instincts, and feeling more present in her relationships. The goal was never to erase the past. It was to help her feel freer in the present and more able to move toward the life she wanted to create.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
What do you specialize in?
I specialize in helping adults heal from trauma, anxiety, PTSD, perfectionism, people-pleasing, self-criticism, attachment wounds, low self-esteem, burnout, and nervous system dysregulation. Many of the people I work with are thoughtful, insightful, and highly capable, yet continue to feel stuck in patterns that affect their relationships, work, or sense of well-being.
My work integrates evidence-based and body-oriented approaches, including EMDR, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Somatic Therapy, and Deep Brain Reorienting (DBR), to support lasting change at both the emotional and nervous system levels.
What types of therapy do you offer?
I use an integrative approach that combines Internal Family Systems (IFS), EMDR, Somatic Therapy, Deep Brain Reorienting (DBR), Havening Techniques, and depth-oriented psychotherapy. Together, these approaches help address the emotional, relational, and nervous system patterns that often underlie anxiety, trauma, and recurring life challenges.
There is no one-size-fits-all approach to therapy. Rather than applying the same method to every client, I tailor the therapeutic process to your unique history, goals, and nervous system, drawing from different modalities as needed to support meaningful and lasting change.
How is your approach different from traditional talk therapy?
Insight is important, but understanding why you feel the way you do is not always enough to create lasting change. Many symptoms of trauma and anxiety are held not only in thoughts, but also in the nervous system and body. My approach combines insight with evidence-based trauma therapies that help process unresolved experiences, regulate the nervous system, and create change at a deeper level.
Can therapy help if I understand my patterns but still feel stuck?
Yes. This is one of the most common reasons people seek therapy. Many clients have already spent years reading books, listening to podcasts, or engaging in therapy and have a good understanding of their patterns. Yet they continue to experience anxiety, overwhelm, self-doubt, relationship struggles, or emotional reactions that seem difficult to change. Therapy can help address the deeper emotional and nervous system processes that keep those patterns in place
Do I need a trauma history or diagnosis to benefit from therapy?
No. Many people benefit from therapy without identifying their experiences as trauma. Difficult relationships, chronic stress, emotional neglect, attachment wounds, perfectionism, or growing up in environments where emotional needs were not fully met can all have a lasting impact. Therapy can help you understand and heal the effects of these experiences, whether or not they fit a formal diagnosis.
Do you work with high achievers, perfectionists, and highly sensitive people?
Yes. Many of the clients I work with are high achievers who appear successful and capable on the outside but internally struggle with anxiety, self-doubt, perfectionism, people-pleasing, burnout, or a harsh inner critic.
I also work with many highly sensitive people who feel deeply, process experiences intensely, and often find themselves overwhelmed by stress, relationships, or the demands of everyday life. Therapy can help you develop greater self-trust, emotional resilience, and nervous system regulation so success no longer comes at the expense of your well-being.
What should I expect in a typical therapy session?
Therapy is a collaborative process. Sessions may include talking about current challenges, exploring emotions and patterns, working with the body and nervous system, processing unresolved experiences, or engaging in approaches such as EMDR, IFS, somatic therapy, or DBR when appropriate. The pace is tailored to your needs, with an emphasis on safety, consent, and helping you feel supported throughout the process.
How do I know if we're a good fit?
The therapeutic relationship is one of the most important factors in successful therapy. Research consistently shows that feeling safe, understood, and connected with your therapist predicts positive outcomes more strongly than any specific technique or modality. The free consultation is an opportunity to ask questions, discuss what you’re looking for, and get a sense of whether working together feels like the right fit. You’re welcome to schedule yours.
Do you offer online therapy?
Yes. I offer secure virtual psychotherapy sessions for clients throughout Ontario, as well as in-person therapy from my Toronto office.
Is psychotherapy covered by insurance in Ontario?
Many extended health benefits plans include coverage for Registered Psychotherapists. Coverage depends on the specific benefits package selected by your employer or plan administrator. You will receive a receipt after each session that can be submitted for reimbursement. I recommend checking directly with your benefits provider to confirm the details of your coverage.
How do I get started?
I offer a free 15-minute phone consultation as a first step. This is an opportunity for us to connect, explore what’s bringing you to therapy, and get a sense of whether working together feels like the right fit. You’re welcome to schedule your free consultation. If it feels like a match, we can then schedule an initial session and begin working together.
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